Sunday, August 28, 2022

Our New Groove

Our first full week into school and it's a good routine!

Asher:
our littlest buddy. No crawling, no foods. Lots of smiling. Loves to be held. Blows raspberries really loudly all through church. Wakes once a night, sometimes twice. Sits and smiles at his crazy brothers. Loves stroller rides. Likes car rides. Enjoys smashing some foods in his high chair at meal times, which we'll call progress, but none of them have made it to his mouth. He's so tender and we are all obsessed with him. Such a sweet soul.

Camden:
Our sour patch kid right now. Sooo sweet, so funny, so adorable... so mean, so maddening, so tantrumy. But mostly he's sweet and we're obsessed with him too. He loves to ride his balance bike to school. He likes to watch Daniel Tiger while I exercise. He loves choosing what I make him for lunch. He loves all cars and trucks in the world and loves to point them all out and talk about everything on the road on our drives. He likes to try to wrestle with Asher when Westin and Bennett are at school, with a distinct "Well, it's just me and you kid" attitude about it. He has to stop us on our walks about every third of a mile to "give baby hug! give mommy hug!"

Bennett:
I wish I could be a fly on the wall for Bennett's school day but he seems like he's liking it! He's my little buddy. He loves picking up Asher lately, which is new and slightly concerning but so far all is good :) He's my biggest eater right now which is totally saying something. They all take turns being in a growth spurt and this guy is for sure in one. We're working hard on our Bob books and he loves to play outside with his brothers.

Westin:
our little shadow. He loves to be where we are, hear what we're saying, learn what we're talking about, ask us so many questions, and do whatever we're doing. He has had great days at school and a great attitude and we've had smoother mornings than last year, which I'm very grateful for. He's soaking up Harry Potter -- we read the book together, then he reads it on his own before we read the next one. He's read 1 and 2 solo after me reading them to him and now I'm halfway through the 3rd with him. We have a Harry Potter world trip in the calendar and he's thrilled about it. He had a blast at our ward party this week, which was a family heritage potluck. We brought Daetwyler rolls and jam and the missionaries awarded our fam "Prettiest dish" because those Daetwyler rolls really are so pretty. And I still feel like I never quite remember the exact right way to tie them and they STILL won prettiest dish, so just imagine Sally's rolls.

Maddie:
I have a meeting about expanding our book in retail spaces this week that I'm hopeful for, and our holiday shipment of books hit the states last week and is making its way to our distributor. It's hard to believe that we're heading into our second Christmas season with this book on shelves! We're loving working on our next book more than we're loving marketing our first but both are important to do, so I need to do some end of year planning. I love our new school routine, I get good time with Camden and good time with Asher, and Westin and Bennett are so cute after school. The hardest part of the gig is when I walk them home and they both talk to me a mile a minute at the same time and I'm getting better and better at just listening to them simultaneously and responding to both when I can, because I just notice when I make them wait for each other then they usually just lose their end-of-day excitement and I get way less out of them. So much of motherhood is anxiety and sensory overload and I decided to just start taking medicine for it instead of waiting for me to learn how to handle it better ;) nooo regrets. Wish I did it sooner. Also, I am just so excited for September and fall and birthday season and fall and, fall. I love fall. The 10-day forecast is all 90s and I wore a sweater to church today. Because, fall. I did regret that. I love fall.

Michael:
has some big things in store at work this week that we'll be happy to get on the other side of, hopefully things come together and we'll feel a weight off in a few days! He played dodgeball with the Young Men this week and I laughed so much at his sweaty state when he got home. He showed no mercy, I could tell. He's really liking his calling. He also likes that I now pack him lunches since I have to pack them for Westin and Bennett :) It hasn't been as big of a hassle as I thought. I like looking at ways to turn dinner into their lunches or pre-make a lot of lunches for the freezer. Tonight we had crepes for dinner because the boys have been begging for me to make strawberry jam, so I finally did and we celebrated with a crepe night. Then I packed them each a turkey/pesto crepe for lunch tomorrow and Westin was excited about it. It's fun to have a kid that is into food. Because life is....so much food.

We are looking forward to a new week in our new school year and just getting in our groove!

From last week, sweet Bennett

A cute second grader in his reading space

Mornings have a lot of time before school... I feel like we start so late!

We look tired and blurry because we feel tired and blurry. I love these two.

Baby hugs... I can't handle it.


Playing with his ears a lot these days.
Not in an ear infection way. Just in a, well these are interesting.... way.



Found a new fun spot downtown. Not the best tacos, but always good to check another spot off that taco search list. 






I love Fort Collins so much.


Tomatoes from the elementary school garden!

We went to a peach festival and it was...
just not our best outing. On the way out Michael said,
"Well, it was a thing to do and we did it." And that appropriately summed it up.
Next time we'll just spend festival ticket money on more peaches :)

Cuties from the ward party eating bishop's apple crisp



 

Monday, August 22, 2022

Back to School

I can't believe our summer is over! It flew by so fast. I really love when my kids are home. It's louder and messier and harder sometimes, but it really makes me happy when my boys are with each other.

Bennett started Kindergarten this week and Westin started Second Grade. They were both really excited to go. I kept asking Bennett about starting school during the days/weeks leading up to it. I think he could tell he was supposed to have some iffy feelings about it or something because one time he said, "I am a little nervous to start Kindergarten I think." And I when I asked him what he was nervous about, he said, "What if... a hippo gets out of the zoo, and gets in my classroom?" So I told him he probably doesn't need to be nervous about that :) But, just, get under a desk I guess. (He wanted an answer.)

He has the same teacher Westin had. He was so brave his first day, and he didn't even seem overly tired after his school days like I thought he would. He seems to be having fun and I am just so proud of that cute boy.

Westin was beaming after his first day. He loved it, and said his teacher is so funny, and he loved having recess with the whole second grade because he played with some friends from last year who aren't in his class this year. He loves school so much. He listens to everything we say and soaks up ALL the things. Like today, we had a couple over from our previous ward before our boundaries changed. They're older and super sweet. They were telling us a story that was a little bit above the boys' heads and something I'd prefer to not explain to them yet (just a funny story from a trip they took to Las Vegas this summer), and I told Westin and Bennett to go play with the football since they were done eating. Westin leaned over to me and said, "I am not going to go play. I am going to listen to this." I was laughing inside so much. It was this moment of him knowing I wanted him to not listen and to just go play, and him knowing that he absolutely was going to stay right there and listen to what the adults were talking about. He's getting to be so big.

We had a dumb situation with some kids from a neighboring neighborhood who taught Westin a swear word this week. I was so proud of how he handled it. He came right in and said, those kids told me a word I've never heard before. What's ****? I just explained to him how it's worse than even the bad words we tell him he's not allowed to say, like stupid and jerk, and that if he said it at school he'd get in big trouble. That's more than enough for him. Then I marched outside and saw the kids still playing on our street and went into full mom mode on them. They will definitely not be swearing in front of my kids again, I feel pretty confident about that... Mom mode comes on fast and strong. It's hard to share kids with the world -- that's how I felt sending Bennett to Kindergarten and teaching Westin about dumb words and choices this week. I wish I could just keep them with me in a bubble together but at the same time I know that's not what they're here for, and helping them navigate this world is an important job.

Camden was a little bummed when his brothers weren't at home with us their first day of school. After 10 minutes he asked me if it was time to go pick them up. But then after about 20 minutes of playing with him with full attention and just following his lead, which is a long time to follow a three-year-old's lead and about my max..., he was having so much fun and I could tell he saw the benefits of more mom attention pretty fast. He has such a cute and funny imagination and such a goofy, happy personality. 

Asher is still an angel. Two little teeth! Sits up so well but doesn't crawl or scoot. He rolls around if he's in his sleep sack but doesn't really roll if he's not. He LOVES his brothers. We went on a date night with the Dimonds and the Rushes on Saturday, and I put Asher down at 6:30 before we left and he slept until 5 minutes after we got home at 10:30, then I fed him and he slept until 6:30. I love that schedule so much. That one feed a night is my favorite time right now. Oh that sweet boy, I don't know how I'm going to be able to let him turn 1.

Michael had a quiet call week which always feels so lucky! He got a new backpacking tent and set it up in our living room this week and the boys thought that was the best thing. He took Westin and Bennett to play baseball today at the park and they just loved that. Westin is so into sports right now. We haven't found a sport that Bennett is very into yet, and maybe there isn't one and that's ok, but we're trying to figure out what he loves in life besides dinosaurs, and his mom, and chocolate chip cookies :) But honestly, those three things keep him super happy right now.

My favorite things right now are writing assignments for my job that still feels really new and happy, planning my next book with Kindal, doing crosswords at night with Michael that my dad collects from Cedar City newspapers and my mom mails to us (usually while eating a treat), walking while Camden cruises on his balance bike, catching up with friends, and checking a workout off my list each day because it just always feels so hard to get that done right now. Postpartum life after number four has not been like postpartum life after one, two, and three, but I'll just keep on keepin' on.

That was a lot. This week just seemed like a lot. August marks time passing and it kind of broke my heart to see all my friend's posts this week of first days of school and kids one year older. I just feel like I am feeling more and more all the time how true it is when people stop to tell me that this all goes by fast. The beginning really did crawl. But I see it now. These boys are growing faster all the time, and I'm not wishing any stages away.

My biggest baby and littlest baby. They have a sweet bond.

Didn't even mean to match them all but they thought it was pretty cool

Our little morning devotional before the FIRST DAY of SCHOOL!
Such an exciting time. First days of school were so much fun and so exciting for me growing up,
I had so much fun seeing them look forward to going back.

This cute kid!


How is this possible.





Our school walk crew!
Give me four boys over a pregnant body any day.
We're going to do just fine this year.



He's off... my heart.

This kid. I don't know how to share him with the world but I don't have a choice.

We have a comedian that lives near us, Dude Dad, and this is how he picked his kids up from school the first day. The kids thought it was so hilarious.

I was so excited to pick them up and hear their stories after their first day!

Westin totally loved Second Grade day 1.

Camden is so speedy on his bike. Our walks are so much better this year.
Me: not pregnant.
Camden: on wheels.
We move so much faster.

We got to keep Bennett with us Wednesday because Kindergarten had a staggered start -- half the class started Tuesday and the other half on Wednesday, so they could all get a feel for things, and then they were all together on Thursday.

He eats nothing.
No food, no bottles. Just mom. But he's chunky and happy and eventually he'll like food. Right?

Creative, sweet Bennett.




Asher has started deconstructing things and it buys some time here and there to get things done.

Best news ever.
Reese's footballs.
Which are really just Reeses's eggs, called Reese's footballs.
And Reese's eggs are the yummiest shape. So now I get a fall fix!

Just these two at home now during our days!


I can't believe I'm nearing the end of nursing four boys.
Though Asher not into food or bottles, so, not quite the end.
But it's coming.

I love slow mornings.

Westin in his second grade scene!

The baby scene at a birthday party this weekend

The boys loved this sandbox area


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