The Week We Probably Won't Talk About

This week.

I should start of by saying that Michael and I had our TEN YEAR anniversary this week -- because that's happy! That's a happy thing.

But this week. Oh it hit us hard.

We started off on Monday looking forward to Ali and her crew getting here for a visit. But the visit turned way too eventful.

Tuesday she had a scheduled extraction with Michael, which is why she made the trek out with her two cute kiddos. She's had two teeth giving her trouble for years and years and it was just time to see them go. We just kind of weren't prepared for the recovery week after that double extraction though (you'd think I'd know exactly what to expect?), and the day of the procedure itself was bananas. We basically had twin toddlers and twin babies for the week, plus Westy and Benny. I had a neighbor walk the older two to school, Ali left for work with Michael, both babies cried while the toddlers did their frenemy things they do, and it was pretty crazy there for a little bit. Then I got one baby asleep, then two toddlers watching Cocomelon, then the other baby to sleep, then my other neighbor came over to sit with the sleeping babies.

Then I loaded the toddlers up and we went to Michael's office to pick up Ali. The procedure took a little longer than expected because those teeth have had a rough life, and I kept Elise and Camden entertained in the break room and prayed my neighbor wasn't home with two crying babies. Everything was smooth though, but Ali was so dizzy and out of it and nauseous and tired after. So they wheeled her out, we got home, babies did good, so grateful for neighbors. Ali fell asleep and I took two toddlers and a baby to get her meds while Asher kept napping -- hooray for him finally sleeping in his own space. His first nap of the day is his long one these days, which is sad when I want a good rest at 1pm and he only sleeps 45 min, but great for productive mornings.

The next few days involved -- a sinus infection (me), a recovering weekend sickness (Michael), a continuing extraction recovery (Ali), a stomach bug (Westin -- we kicked our tenth anniversary off cleaning up the WORST throw up event of our married life at 2 a.m.), another stomach bug (Bennett), congested baby (Asher), mastitis/nursing troubles (Ali), multiple daily syringe feedings and ultimately a release into the wild (Squirrel), and we fell into Sunday with a what-is-next-oh-my-goodness mentality.

Ali was going to leave Friday originally, but she was just not up to it yet. So she switched her work schedule to have Saturday free, but the weather had snowstorms that day. So Sunday was her day, and that was the morning Bennett threw up and Ali was feeling so sick too. I held Dallin while nursing Asher and got them both down for morning naps while Ali took a morning nap too. Westin and I watched Michael speak in church on Zoom. Not really sad I didn't have four kid alone in the chapel during that. He did great! Then Ali woke up feeling like she needed to just get on the road before another ball dropped.

She is amazing. Such a wonderful mom. I love her and her kiddos so, so, so much. I felt horrible that a week that should have been her taking it easy while I took care of her and her kids ended up having so much more sickness piled on top of it and caregiving spread way too thin. We gave each other breaks all we could and ended up just both feeling exhausted all the time, all while she was in a lot of pain too.

We just... are happy we survived this week and it isn't topping our list of our favorite visits together. Which is such a bummer because oh how we love seeing each other. Especially now that I get to see how much bigger her cute kids are each time and the hilarious things Elise does at that moment. She is so funny and adorable.

Here's to better visits together this summer... we could not have done this week without each other!

Bennett is so into playing Sorry for hours. With Westin or solo, he's not picky.

Little Squirrel got bigger and more energetic and just wilder every day. It was fun to see, but also the feedings took more bravery on my part every time haha.

Cousins!

All four on my own Tuesday morning after sending the boys off.

Sweet Dallin. His smiles just melted me.

Holding hands!

Elise loves joining tummy time :)

This sweet mom.
Taking care of kiddos when she needs taking care of.
The extractions were pretty painful for her after, but the doctor did a great job :)
I think. I'm going to assume. 

These two got some heavy doses of Cocomelon this week, we won't lie.
It was survival.

Almost late to get Bennett because of multiple losses of shoes and multiple collections of sticks.
Toddlers are the best, and insane.

Dallin is about to be sleep trained but isn't quite old enough,
so he's still majorly preferring be held for naps. I looooved holding him.

She rocks that ice pack. Asher rocks that natural mohawk.

Dallin would cheer up so much when we'd lay Asher by him, so cute.

They aren't quite coordinated to fully control what happens during their hang outs though.

He looks so much like his daddy!

Everyone lined up to watch me set squirrel free.
He didn't know if he wanted to run away or stay, but we are keeping tabs on him as much as we can still.
He huddles up under our deck stairs, and he let me syringe feed him while he was in a tree a couple days later, so he still trusts us and is figuring out to be a free squirrel.

A little throwback pic to our first year of marriage in honor of our tenth anniversary!
We drove to Walmart and got a cheesecake that night.
I think we'll go bigger next year. I hope.

Elise got to ride front facing to get her mom some medicine, which she hasn't done before.
She was loving it. I was loving the pigtails.

Sick days and bowl shows.

Tummy time for the whole crew. 

This week warmed up!

Tray lunch in their fort of the day.
They're always building this and that from everything in the backyard.

Like I said, not fully coordinated during their hangouts.
Dallin wasn't trying to wrestle Asher, but he was wrestling Asher.

We made one outing attempt with all 6 under 7 -- Scheels in Loveland. They loved the fish and animals,
and Ali loved catching the end of the Jazz game on the big screen there.

Nursing one and holding one, crazy times but so sweet too.

Michael and Westin went on a Sunday hike together.
Westy did 5 miles and loved it. He's getting so big and fun.

Swimming Lessons & New States

Michael:

has longer days than we expected at the VA and that has been sad to get used to. He placed his first implant this week! Which is something he'll be doing a lot of after residency so he's looking forward to doing a lot of that at the VA during this rotation. He went to the splash pad with us for the first time this week and we had fun watching the boys and laughing at the way they were experiencing the water. He also made it off work in time one day this week to get to Westin's swimming lessons and watch, then we went straight from there to a co-resident's house for a barbecue and swimming. 

Maddie:

 had my parents here the beginning of the week after they drove us home from Utah. And then on Sunday night I left for a quick trip -- my 30th birthday is creeping up and I've had a 50-before-30 goal forever (all 50 states before I turn 30). Before this week I had three left, so I flew to Fargo, North Dakota to explore around there and Minnesota. So random, I know! But this has been a goal forever and I was so, so, so happy the whole time. Now I only have one state left and it's coming up in September :) The best part was meeting my sister there and just laughing with her the entire time. I'm putting our trip details below so I can remember it.

Westin:

started swimming lessons! And he loves them. I really stressed about this because I knew I would be in North Dakota for his first two swimming lessons and I was nervous about how he'd handle them. My parents took him and his teacher is really great. Westin hated the water last summer, and I couldn't give much attention to that issue because Bennett was only a few months old still. But this summer they both have so much fun and it has been way better. I want to read more to Westin but at night he always asks for "stories from your mouth" which means make up a story rather than read to him. And he loves to make up stories too, and those can go for quite some time :) He also has an imaginary friend he named "Stop Sign" who seems to get into a lot of trouble and we have to talk about that a lot. He doesn't love our summer time walks much since it's so hot here now, but he looks forward to swimming lessons each afternoon.

Bennett:

doesn't talk much still but he sure does Meow. He meows SO much and it makes me laugh all the time. Maybe Kitty taught him to talk. He does say All Done and More a lot now, and he has started pointing to body parts when I tell them to him. It's so cute when kids point to their eyes. He loves to chase Westin and be chased, though inevitably their playing ends in someone crying. But it's still really fun before they get to that point! :) He loves stroller rides, loves putting on shoes, loves watering plants outside. I'm debating if it's time to get rid of the binky or not. We have one more little trip at the end of this month so I wonder if I should wait for that drive to be over, but it seems like there's always something. I can't believe he's so big!

North Dakota & Minnesota Trip:

I left last Sunday night for a 7pm flight to Denver, and spent the night in the airport. I thought I'd be able to find a spot and get some sleep but honestly it was impossible. Motherhood has made me such a light sleeper. And after making myself do nothing but try to sleep for 60 minutes with my eyes closed in a random airport spot, I gave up and watched Grey's Anatomy the entire night. Honestly, it was a party.

Ali met me in Denver the next morning and we ate some protein muffins I brought for breakfast before our flight to Fargo. Once we were on the plane I put my head in her lap and instantly fell asleep for 100% of the flight. So at least I was running on 2 hrs of sleep instead of none once we got to North Dakota. 

From there we picked up my rental car, and then did a gas station mystery shop for some quick snacks! Michael gave her the mystery shop bug. Then we drove to each of the state signs and tourist centers and met the people there. The ladies at the Moorhead, MN tourist info spot were SO nice and fun. They told me we needed to eat some North Dakotan food while we were there, and I said, "What even is that??" They said we had to eat Fleischkuekle (see here, but they literally said it like Flesh-keegle, which sounds so unappetizing) and Knoephla soup (see here) which is a chicken dumpling type dish.  Cedar High had the greatest German teacher in the world so Ali and I both knew Fleisch is Meat in german, so we talked to them about that. They said it's actually a "Germans from Russia" recipe so it has ties to both countries. Families in North Dakota have ties to Germany, who had ties to Russia, and they spoke with a Canadian-type accent. It was really fun to talk with them, and they told us a few other fun spots to visit and food to eat, and marked it on a map for us. Then we bought matching t-shirts (we have a specific kind/brand that we are both obsessed with and they had two Minnesota t-shirts in our size on clearance so we had to get them) and went on our way.

From there we went to the Fargo tourist center in North Dakota and had them add some spots to our map and to do list. They were super nice as well, and we went from there to check in early at our hotel. The older lady that worked there was absolutely adorable and she was just so happy about the fact that we were just sisters traveling together to meet my goal. (Ali met her 50-before-30 goal already, so she just came along because she's the best.) She upgraded our room and gave us some water bottles and was just the sweetest to us. She said we needed to experience "North Dakota Nice" and honestly the vibe from all three of our first stops just had me feeling Midwest feelings and majorly missing Indianapolis.

After that we drove to see the Hjemkomst Viking Ship (see here, a replica of a viking ship made by a high school teacher who since died of leukemia, and his family had it sailed to Norway in his memory). Then we explored Lindenwood Park and we were surprised at how hot it was. Humidity is a pain you quickly forget. Then we drove downtown to get an early dinner. While we were sitting on a bench on main street someone asked us were a park was. Ali immediately looked at me while he was talking to me because she KNEW it was Tobias from Arrested Development. I didn't think it was actually, actually him but I did think it was funny how much he looked like him. We told him we were visiting and we weren't sure, and while he looked at a city map with his little kid and friend, Ali looked up a current photo of him. It was totally David Cross. That was so funny to me. I wanted to ask him for a picture but we kind of got the vibe that he knew we figured out who he was and his body language was totally closed off from us from that point on. But it cracked us up. We also met another guy right after that who was too friendly and I answered every question he asked me with a lie. He left thinking I was Sara from San Francisco who was a programmer and here in Fargo for work. Ali was so weirded out by how quickly and easily I made answers up and is convinced I do that all the time now. Which I don't. When in Fargo?

We ate at the Boiler Room and it was delicious, and then we had a wild and crazy night of picking up Insomnia Cookies and milk from Wal-Mart and eating them while watching HGTV in our hotel. I was so tired from my 2-hour night and I slept 11 hours straight in our hotel room that night. #nokids

The next morning we explored more of the Minnesota side of things but we were sad that the lakes and hikes were a little too far away to make before our flight that afternoon. Quick, quick trip. I wanted to go to the headwaters of the Mississippi, but I guess that'll be for my next Minnesota trip. :) We then went to Kroll's diner for brunch to eat Fleischkuekle and Knoephla soup. I'm not going to lie, it was far from my favorite meal I've ever had... when in Fargo again? While we were eating (and laughing) two girls and a guy from the table next to us came over and told us they managed the social media for the diner and a few other clients. They asked if they could photograph us and share the images, and I told them that was fine and that the matching outfits might throw off the photos. The photographer said that was only adding to the situation and the guy asked us if we had a story behind that. So we gave him the sisters/50-before-30/we-own-all-the-same-clothes backstory and he was intrigued. Basically he was so curious about what someone does when they visit Fargo, ND because it's such a random spot.

We talked to them for a while about the Fargo/Moorhead relationship (apparently Fargo is more liberal than most of North Dakota so they identify with Minnesota more and have "state envy", and there's hardly anything in Moorhead besides residential areas so they work and shop and play in Fargo), about seeing Tobias (he's the one that told us David Cross had a comedy show that night, and that Fargo actually has a swanky jet center north of the city so celebrities will sometimes stop to fill up and avoid more crowded spots -- he saw Tom Hanks grabbing biscuits and gravy downtown one day), and about how they survive the winter there. He said they just drink it away, and that North Dakota drinks more beer per capita than any other state. I told him that didn't surprise me because the night before I had wanted to grab some milk and I saw 6 liquor stores before I saw a grocery store. He said, "You wanted... milk?" And I said, "Yeah, to go with our Insomnia Cookies! That's not weird! Plus we don't drink." And he said, "You're on vacation and you went out and got milk? Did you go crazy and grab the whole milk?" And then I just started laughing so hard, because Ali literally opened the door in the milk aisle the night before and said, "We're getting 2%, we're on vacation -- we'll start being good again after this week." I told him that and we were all dying. Sometimes I forget just how bizarre the mormon lifestyle is to the world. But I have no complaints about chocolate chip cookies and milk, ever. And all through that conversation the photographer was snapping photos and it was all just so random and fun.

From there we filled up the car, returned it, grabbed a North Dakota deck of cards, and got on our flight. Traveling with my sister is so, so much fun. She's the only one who will get this list but I'm leaving it here to laugh at later:

-Filling up her water bottle at the gross drinking fountain

-Car Manuals and gas fill ups

-Kum & Go, then Kum & Go, then Kum & Go

-Kohl's and Kroll's
-"Do I put ketchup on this?" "Oh no.. don't do that."

-Forever 21 hours don't apply

-"We're together."

-"Where are you staying?" "Over there."

-"Is that good?"

-"I sell a lot of shirts. Where'd you get those shirts?"

-Searching for the Boiler Room

 North Dakotan Cuisine

Knoephla Soup & Fleischkuekle

David Cross Sighting

Midwest Cornfields! Because this was the Minnesota side, which is apparently still Midwest but over in North Dakota, not so much.

Lindenwood Park

Little bunny at our hotel.

State 48!

State 49!

We are so happy every time we get a message asking us to watch Rosie girl!

Swimming lessons! Westin loves Colby and he does a great job getting Westin comfortable with the water. I was so sad to miss his first two lessons but my parents sent lots of pictures, and honestly maybe it was better he didn't have me to cry to :)

First week of swimming lessons down! Westin goes every day for 2 weeks of fast-start swim, and then beginning in August he will have a weekly lesson through his preschool year.

Summer Catch Up: Ali's Wedding!

We loved visiting Utah in June for my sister's wedding. She was so beautiful! And we are so happy to have Matthias in the family. Their wedding was such a happy celebration, and we were grateful to be there with my family.

They were married in the Payson, Utah temple on June 20, 2015. That temple is incredibly beautiful! It made me so excited for our own Indianapolis temple to be finished soon. I'm grateful for that sweet day this summer when my family could all share Ali's special day, and be reminded about what is truly important in this life. Family! I think about my family members so much. Their happiness means the world to me and I just want to be with them forever. I know that we can be, through Christ.

Congratulations, Alison & Matthias! We love you!